lovely piece on seeing self reflected in media: *Oz*
I didn't get that into the Oz books, but maybe I should've; a trans-ish experience happens in one. The book seems like a fine resource for a trans girl, and the article is a powerful reminder of how important it is to see ourselves reflected in the culture.
http://www.darkfantasy.org/fantasy/?p=3261
http://www.darkfantasy.org/fantasy/?p=3261