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Well the school sent her and just a few other kids (some with disabilities) to a fake prom, while the rest of the student body went to a private prom. (vomiting space here)

http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/04/05/ACLU_Investigating_Fake_Prom/
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The Begining

The Circle of Dionysos do an awesome queer circle at Pantheacon.

Chewey blog entry.
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Last night I was part of a panel on sexuality and teenagers at a high-school in San Mateo. It's clearly a progressive school; they have presentations every month for parents involved in the school, they have a GSA and Safe Spaces, etc. Typically, 50-60 parents attend the meetings. Last night maybe 20 showed up. And we were talking about sex! What can be more interesting than that?

It was somewhat interesting, having the panel focused on parent's issues. A presenter from a teen sex education group was part of the panel; she was really good, and her organization sounded wonderful. I was really impressed about how she could provoke questions and conversations, without actually suggesting people 'should' believe this or that about anything; she was providing ways for parents to express their own values.

There was also a psychologist on the panel. She did a PowerPoint presentation. ;-) She had some good tips; I also saw some conflicts, and I 'heard' an assumption that sexual behavior is bad. At one point I was talking about how I knew some schools did not permit a wanted GSA club to start; she said that was illegal. Well, yes it is, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I had a sense from a few folks of self-congratulating... it was odd, the school clearly does have some excellent policies, but reminders of local suicides didn't seem to really get them to hear more was needed in some core ways.

The panel was also kinda dull... I think due to the light attendance; unlike in a typical class or college education panel, the people attending mostly seemed a lot more constrained. I suspect due to fear of embarrassment in front of others. Who knows.

The teen sex educator (wish I'd gotten the group name! hmm, I could call the organizer) talked about a documentary around gender, which sounded really good: Straightlaced. The trailer looks great. Here are a couple links:
http://features.outinamerica.com/2009/02/11/straightlaced/
http://groundspark.org/our-films-and-campaigns/straightlaced

I am feeling drawn towards finding someway to do 'this' for real. No idea where to start. Wondering if I should offer something for free, on top of doing these panels... Wondering.

Kaiser

Nov. 16th, 2009 09:54 pm
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This evening (!) I got a call from an office of San Francisco Kaiser. I had been referred there by my local (Santa Clara) branch.

This San Francisco branch performs transgender care and surgery.

The nice lady was audibly sad that she could not help me, as though she worked at the place which could help me, I don't have the holy 'transgender benefit' at Kaiser; therefor they cannot will not help me. Insurance doesn't cover me. She helpfully suggested I get a job with the city of San Francisco (keeper of the holy benefit torch, along with just a few other places). Nice and all, but, really, should every trans American come get a job with the city in order to get health care. ? Meanwhile, my insurance company, which could take care of my health care needs insystem, won't. And they are *still* the best game in town.

I am yet another person health insurance doesn't take care of.

And on another front: do trans specific laws matter? Yes they do. Sure they shouldn't need to exist, but they make all the difference in the world.
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Who knew we had a day? Thanks [livejournal.com profile] fluffthebunny.

Yes, I exist. :-) Lots of us do.

May you find the love and pleasure you seek.
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http://transgenderlawcenter.org/pdf/StateTransCA_report_2009Print.pdf

The report includes recommendations for many institutions on what they can do to avoid discriminating against trans people.

Thank ghod for TLC!

from the report:
Good News
Transgender Californians have been legally protected from discrimination and harassment in employment since 2004.
Transgender respondents are almost twice as likely to hold a bachelor’s degree as the general California State population.
Transgender Californians have been legally protected from discrimination and harassment in housing since 2004.
California prohibits discrimination in public accommodations, including medical care, based on gender identity.

Bad News
Seventy percent of the transgender community reports experiencing workplace harassment or discrimination directly related to their gender identity.
Transgender respondents are twice as likely to be living below the poverty line of $10,400 when compared to the general population.
1 in 5 respondents have been homeless since they first identified as transgender.
Thirty percent of the community reports postponing care for illness or preventive care due to disrespect or discrimination from doctors or other health care providers.
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snagged from elemirion

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Interesting ramifications indeed. WA state is embroiled in a battle around a trans man's legal status; when he can legally be called a man. The attorney wants the definition to be about reproduction capacity. Isn't that nice? This after all of the work the medical/theraputic community has put into understanding and making definitions that acknowledge gender is about identity, not 'bits'. Not that that community has't got a helluva long way to go yet. ;-)

http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2009/09/03/2675154.htm

I thought it was interesting the attorney was resisting going with the ruling that being a man was not legally connected to the ability to bear children (described as having or not having a hysterectomy, though of course it's more complicated than that); becuase of the challenges he foresaw in the legal system.

He has a point. The occasional trans man who bears a child will likely make for an occasionally complex legal sitations. Yet there are a lot of complex legal issues, and one or two have revolved around offspring (we're not terribly good at the whole best-for-the-child thing). I don't think one additional thorn is gonna bring down legal civilization.

I don't believe an entire class of people should have their legal gender dependent upon a possible legal inconvenience. 'Let's make sure x can't happen by taking away all those people's identity.' I appreciated the phrasing though... clearly the attorney general wasn't thinking about the lives of actual people, but of just the legal system (doing his job, I'm sure). Which is supposed to be for the lives of actual people. As originally conceived. These things take on a life of their own.

Of course, speculating gently, without some finesse, legal women without a uterus could be defined as legally male... I'm sure that would be a winner. And then there are those inconvenient intersex people...

As wit all medical and legal stuff, it's also interesting to consider how few trans people there are. At that level, it also seems crazy to put effort into making laws which restrict so few people. Isn't that a basic definition of discrimination; to hold against the minority?

Here's hoping the State Administrative Tribunal's ruling stands.
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A Series of Questions

Questions random people ask trans people all the time.


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Peter Toscano. Amazing Christian view on transgender. If you're interested in the topic, watch the video.

I'm not Christian, but wow, I know a lot of folks have suffered around the intersection of that religion and their gender identity.
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Really good ramble on the differences and similarities between butches and trans men.

All Things Butch and Trans

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7/16 Follow on - today I called the local office of each of my representatives. It took three minutes to do both. :-)
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--- some of us queer folks lie so we can give blood, some of us don't donate at all, in protest/compliance with the stupid no gay guys rules. Here's a hope for sanity -

from:
http://www.thebody.com/content/whatis/art51602.html
Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation • U.S. News

California Proposal Would Lift FDA Ban on Blood Donations From MSM

May 4, 2009

California Assembly member Tom Ammiano (D) has proposed a resolution (AJR 13) to lift an FDA ban on blood donations from men who have sex with men, Capitol Weekly reports. Ammiano said the ban "assumes if you are heterosexual that you would not have the same exposure" to HIV as MSM. He added that the ban still exists because of the slow bureaucratic process required to lift it. According to Capitol Weekly, the resolution would address MSM and not injection drug users, who are restricted from donating blood after using injection drugs one time.

The American Red Cross, the American Association for Blood Banks and America's Blood Centers have urged FDA to lift the ban, according to Capitol Weekly. The Red Cross earlier this month reported that there was a 30% shortage in donations. According to Capitol Weekly, about 5% of the U.S. population, or 15 million people, donates blood annually (Chernyavsky, Capitol Weekly, 4/30).

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Find out who your legislative reps are at: 
http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/yourleg.html

and give 'em a call!
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Cool awareness-building Sweedish Pride promo based on your Twitter name!

http://www.stockholmpride.org/howhetero/

35% HeteroLobolance is 35% HeteroHow hetero are you? How hetero is Martha Stewart? Try out any Twitter name and get the real picture. Are we really the words we use? Hope to see you at Stockholm Pride!
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  • The Matthew Shepherd Hate Crimes bill S.909 needs our support to stay alive; and by far better if it's not attached to the Defense Authorization Act (all kinds of unrelated stuff, which not everyone is gonna want passed).
  • ENDA (employment nondiscrimination; HR3017) needs our support to have any chance at all.

We're actually pretty close... let's make this happen!

Even the CA reps can't be guaranteed across all fronts. If you want equality for LGBT people, please take a moment and contact your reps. :-) In DC, make their phones ring! Call the Capitol Switchboard at (202) 224-3121 and have them connect you to your Representative (based on your zip code) (btw votesmart.org will find out who *your* reps are).

For me, it's:
Representative Michael M. 'Mike' Honda <http://votesmart.org/summary.php?can_id=9674>  - U.S. House District 15 (Democratic)
Representative Zoe Lofgren <http://votesmart.org/summary.php?can_id=21899>  - U.S. House District 16 (Democratic)
 
Senator Barbara Boxer <http://votesmart.org/summary.php?can_id=53274>  - U.S. Senate Junior Seat (Democratic)
Senator Dianne Feinstein <http://votesmart.org/summary.php?can_id=53273>  - U.S. Senate Senior Seat (Democratic)

Let's make this happen!

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Transcript of a talk as it was given at the 2009 WPATH conference in Oslo, Norway, June 19, 2009, by Randall Ehrbar, Kelley Winters, Nicholas Gorton

http://www.gidreform.org/wpath2009/

some highlights (my words):
'gender dysphoria' as the diagnostic term; emphasis on 'dysphoria', not transness in itself as diagnosis/illness
'remission' concept: after people have successfully transitioned, the dysphoria is in remission, but ongoing treatment is (usually) required to keep 'em happy.
removes 'transvestism' and some poor/outdated language from the the DSM as pertains to gender.

Am keeping my fingers crossed, and grateful to the medical professionals (and friends) doing this work.
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I gotta track down more of Larkin Grimm's work She is fascinating. This article has one video of her performing lakeside.

http://coilhouse.net/2009/06/17/larkin-grimm-advanced-shapeshifter/

Now she would be a cool role model for girls! Scare just about everybody in all the best ways. :D

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